Alright, mamas, Halloween is a week away, and I really hope the costumes are squared away by now (if not, don’t panic – a roll of aluminum foil and some creativity can still save the day). But here’s the thing: while the kids are bouncing off the walls in anticipation of sugar-induced euphoria, we deserve a little magic of our own. And no, I’m not talking about sneaking candy from their stash – though, let’s be honest, we’re doing that too.

Halloween might be all about the spook factor for the kiddos, but for us, it's a reminder to slow down and reclaim a moment of sanity. Between pumpkin patch visits, school parades, and figuring out how to glue-gun bat wings onto a jacket at the last minute (don’t ask), we deserve some well-earned, mom-approved self-care. 

Here are a few fall-themed rituals that’ll help you unwind in style, without so much as a plastic witch's nose in sight:

The Pumpkin-Spice Walk (No Uggs Required)

Nature walks in the fall? Yes, please! I’m not talking about chasing after your toddler who insists on picking every single leaf, but a quiet, intentional walk for you. There’s something so therapeutic about crunching through fallen leaves while the air smells crisp, like apples and cinnamon, without the hum of everyday chaos. It’s like a pumpkin spice latte for the soul. And speaking of, yes, you’re allowed to take one along. I personally have a route where I can walk, sip, and fantasize about adult costumes (I’d like to be ‘well-rested mom’ for Halloween, but I hear that’s impossible).

Fall-Infused Tea Time (a.k.a. Kid Nap Time)

Now, before you roll your eyes at “tea time,” hear me out. This isn’t your great-aunt’s chamomile-and-doily affair. This is an experience. Grab a cozy fall blend like spiced apple or cinnamon chai, wrap yourself in a soft blanket (bonus points if it’s one of those stylish ones you’ve been eyeing for the living room), and savor the quiet. Maybe the kids are watching a Halloween special or miraculously napping (we can dream). Either way, this 15-minute escape is your ticket to feeling like you’ve got it all together, even if that’s a carefully curated illusion.

Oh, and pro tip: Invest in a beautiful mug. It makes the whole experience feel luxe, like a little Instagram moment just for you.

Pumpkin-Scented Aromatherapy: It’s Fall in a Bottle

So, let’s talk aromatherapy. If you haven’t tried it yet, you’re missing out. While my house currently smells like a mix of glue, fabric scraps, and chocolate, I have one room that is a complete oasis – my bathroom. I found a pumpkin-spice-scented diffuser (because why should pumpkins only be about pie?) and, let me tell you, it’s like walking into fall every time I step in. Plus, it makes bath time feel like an indulgent retreat.

Speaking of baths, if you’re feeling extra fancy, throw in a pumpkin bath bomb or light a fall-themed candle. Bonus: It drowns out the sound of kids screaming “Moooooom!” from the other room. At least for a little while.

The “Don’t Talk to Me” Manicure

Let’s be real – Halloween is not complete without a fab manicure. But I’m not talking about Halloween-themed nail art (unless you’re into that). I’m talking about setting aside time to give yourself a mini spa moment. Pick a rich, autumnal color – deep burgundy or a chic burnt orange – and make it your moment. This is less about the manicure itself and more about the statement you’re making to your household: “Don’t talk to me until these nails are dry.”

Once, my husband made the rookie mistake of asking me to help with dinner prep right after I painted my nails. The look I gave him was scarier than any Halloween decoration. Needless to say, he figured it out, lol.

The truth is, Halloween isn’t just about the kids. Sure, they get the costumes, the candy, and the sugar highs, but we moms deserve a treat too – one that involves a little peace and quiet, a lot of cozy, and a hefty dose of “I’m still fabulous.” Whether it’s a nature walk, some pumpkin-scented magic, or just taking 10 minutes to sip a tea that doesn’t involve reheating it three times, remember to carve out a little time for yourself (pun intended). 

As moms, we’re often so busy making Halloween magic for everyone else that we often forget to enjoy a little of that magic ourselves. This year, I’m all about reclaiming the season - not just for the kids in their costumes but for us moms who are holding it all together. Whether it’s a calming walk, some tea, or even a pumpkin-scented candle, I’m reminding myself (and you!) that self-care isn’t selfish. It’s survival. So, let’s all give ourselves a little treat this Halloween - because you, my friend, are the real Halloween hero. And heroes deserve a break.

xoxo